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Friday, August 31, 2012

my boyfriend

Dan Hugo - "Sport Up Your Life" / Engelhorn from Sepia Productions on Vimeo.

photo update!

my hairs were getting longer so i pulled out the scissors and cut them myself

put up your dukes!

sirus's version of a cartwheel

stranger danger!  we're famous!

hot

thinking about this color for the powder room remodel

pedicure longtime over due, with eric washing the car in the background

see, eric really was washing the car

cats

radiation x-rays matched up with pre-radiation CT scan

same stuff, side view. 

resting and relaxing - fuzy weighing in at a solid 14 pounds, nadj weighing in at a soft 9 pounds. (note the new paint and new curtains!)



magically delicious

mama deer chasing the bunny out of the yard!

masters swimming!  although i just stood on deck.

BFFs at HomeDepot

radiation induced baldness!!

MORE radiation induced baldness!!  plus a giant zit.
what i was afraid i might wind up looking like.  who can tell me who this is and what movie it is!

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

doctor tuesdays

today was appointment 25 of 29!  yahoo!
it was also doctor day.  yesterday i complained to the techs and the nurse that my head was hurting since friday.  actually my throat was hurting too and my right ear wasn't so happy either.  they asked if i wanted to see the doctor yesterday and i complained to them about he thinks i am stressed out and that i didn't want to alarm anyone because i don't want them to think i am a hypochondriac (OMG!  i must be one because i totally spelled that correctly on the first try!!!).  so i waited until today.  i spent most of the day in bed, except for the part when eric and i almost got divorced trying to get the kids' passports renewed.  but i slept all the rest of the time.  i really like the doctor i saw.  he's the one who helped me with my stomach issues.  he is funny because he tells you like it is.  i think my doctor tries to make it seem better, i do'nt think he goes over the top saying everything is great, but this guy is very straight forward, not scary but not sugar coated and certainly doesn't make me feel like i am making stuff up.
so he checked out my ears and throat and all that, i've got some fluid in my ears and my eustachian tube is all inflamed.  not infected but not happy.  he shook his head when i told him about the triathlon this past weekend, wondering if i had told my real doctor i was planning on doing it.  the nurse assured me that i did tell him, and even if i hadn't have told him, he would have wanted me to do it.  but they did a strep test and was told to not do anything but rest for the rest of the week.  maybe take some sudafed.  but nothing else.  like so much so that as i was leaving the nurse chased after me and was like, really, we're not kidding, you need to take it easy.  but this was of course after she showed me the whole tube system they have there.  this is a brand new hospital, top of the line, super fancy, and they send things around in those tubes like at the bank!  she said they had to tube over the strep test kit, and i was like, what's that mean?  so she showed me!  its crazy!
but back to the doctor.  i have 4 treatments left.  and i wanted to know when i am considered cured.  i told them i wanted to know when to plan my I'm Cured party.  when i asked the nurse first, she said she couldn't tell me because she didnt know.  but she said i could certainly plan an I'm Done with Radiation party.  that sounds like a good plan!  but then i asked the doctor, and he started his speech with something along the lines of well, i am going to tell you, because you have the right to know and you asked, but you've got a really complicated case, so its really hard to tell.  he said most certainly i can think of myself as cured once radiation is done, and how that is a very positive way to look at it (i was like huh, what?).  he said i will of course have many follow ups and way more MRIs than anyone really should have, but the further out we get from the surgery date, the more i can consider myself cured. i asked him if it was like breast cancer, when they say 5 years in remission and you are considered cured.  he didn't answer that and instead said that my surgeon was actually very aggressive in the surgery, and coupled with the radiation, and the fact that my tumor is a slow grower, if it were to grow back, it could be years from now.  he said if i had not done radiation, and just decided to wait and see, if it was going to grow back, it would likely grow back sooner.  so, what does that mean?  in my opinion, i am going to go the positive way with it, and say it means i am cured!  or at least i will be at 3pm on tuesday Sept 4th!! i may have pituitary and hormone issues, but as far at the tumor goes, i am pretty sure i will be cured on tuesday.  party!!! or nap!!! even if they did tell me i really shouldn't do the triathlon on the 8th!  but i am going to do it, race buddy style with janet!  can't wait!

Monday, August 27, 2012

craniopharyngioma

i just found THIS:
Craniopharyngioma usually presents as a single large cyst or multiple cysts filled with a turbid, proteinaceous, brownish yellow material that glitters owing to the high content of floating cholesterol crystals.

my tumor, well the cyst, was GLITTERING!!  possibly.  i didn't see any glitter in the video, but i'll have to ask the doctor next time i see him!

whooping cough

someone at work got the whooping cough.  uh oh!  i am going to assume i was not exposed.

but i feel like crapiola!  i've had a headache since friday.  i slept most of sunday.  today i felt crappy in the morning and even contemplated not going to work. here is how my day has been:

7:05 AM alarm goes off
7:20ish get out of bed
8:06 leave for work
8:24 arrive at work, go inside.
12:30 leave work and head home
12:48 get in bed and fall asleep
2:05 wake up and leave for the hospital
2:48 after treatment and visit with the nurse, leave hospital.  only 5 more to go!!
3:12 eat voodoo donuts at leslie's!
3:30 go home and get in bed, fall asleep
5:30 wake up for dinner
6:46 vote on the family's lego creations and eat otter pops.

ugh, still have a headache.  met with the nurse today to talk about it.  i had mentioned it to the techs and they said to talk to the nurse.  she asked if i wanted to talk to the doctor, i told them all how he thinks i am stressed.  they laughed.  we'll see what he says tomorrow.  i have a sore throat, too.

but i've got only 5 more to go!  the one tech who had told me that she was pretty sure i would lose my hair came back from her vacation.  she was gone all last week when my hair started falling out but today i was there so i told her, and she said that the other techs already told her. she was hoping i had super hair folicles that weren't going to fall out. but its hard to say if more will come out or not.

today there was this tiny little old woman in the waiting room.  sounds like she got her diagnosis on friday and is already in there starting her radiation and will start with chemo next week, i don't know what for though.  i felt so bad for her.  she was a spunky little lady but she was scared and overwhelmed.  it is alarming on that first day of radiation, they give you all this stuff and your schedule and your check-in card and your parking pass all before you even go in there to see THE MACHINE.  the nurse was talking to her, but i wanted to tell her that the nurses and everyone is great and that they will take great care of her.  if i see her tomorrow i will reach out to her.  she looked so scared, i felt bad that she was there all by herself.

last week of summer before school starts!  we've got a 1st and 3rd grader starting up.  sirus is the funniest.  he loves new clothes.  i got him a new handsome sweater for school.  he hung it up in his closet and told me how he was going to hang all of his handsome clothes in there.  seamus on the other hand likes new clothes too but will be the first to say she doesn't need any new shoes or a new shirt because she already has enough.  he is reading right out of eric's book with that one.  i guess i should embrace that while I can!
so sad that summer is almost over!



Wednesday, August 22, 2012

today

so much excitement in my life, let me tell you what!!!
last week i had an MRI.  i mentioned that and the sinus infection.  what i didn't mention was how it was denied by my insurance company.  deemed as not medically necessary.  so my initial reaction was wow, wish i would have known that before I actually HAD the MRI.  2nd reaction was huh, maybe really who cares if i have a giant cyst growing in there caused by the radiation pressing all up in my good brain and stuff.  i guess knowing that sooner rather then later isn't a big deal.  anyway,  turns out my doctor had already done some ass kicking over the phone and got it approved, so i got another letter saying it had been approved.  i bring that up because today i had another MRI.  and the nurse told me how it had not been approved either but then they took care of it, so all is good in insurance land.  poor sirus would have had to have postponed 2nd quarter of his junior year of college if we would have had to pay for that out of pocket, holy crap!
yesterday though i was so freaking exhausted.  it was unbelievable how tired.  like, i was having a tough time driving myself to the appointment.  i fell asleep during my appppointment and then hung out in the parking lot for 20 minutes  drinking my decaf frappuccino in an attempt to see if it would give me enough energy to make it home. luckily i made it home and into bed without any major injuries to me or anyone else.  gracious.
and then today!!  so exhausted today, too!!  i went to work and was productive again!  i like that!!  but by the end i was like, dude, i am getting TIRED.  i was planning on swimming a little, but instead i got some fruit and yogurt from the whole foods, picked up two of the hats i had been checking out and then went to the hospital.  i got there 45 minutes early because i was hoping to get in an our early so i could get my doctor visit done early so i would be on time to the MRI.  they are so awesome, too.  they took me right back and then i had time to meet with the doctor.  he was super relaxed which was nice and sat in the chair next to me chatting.  we discussed how my hair started to fall out (hence the hats purchase).  he doesn't think any more will fall out while the nurse is like, yeah, once it starts, it just keeps coming out.  but she also said she doesn't think i should shave it.  says to give it more time because it might be ok.
so i asked him about what happens next.  i have 8 appointments left.  funny, when i brought it up, i was like, i am almost done!  but really i am just over 2/3rd done.  still a lot left, but getting there for sure.  so i show up for my last day, then i get kicked to the curb!  pretty much that is all.  well, i come back to talk to him in like a month and then i'll have another MRI in like 3 months.  then if everythign is good then they will kick me to the curb.  sort of.  but i'll have follow ups with the endocrinologists and eye doctor, too.  hopefully won't see the surgeon i guess unless something bad comes up, is how i understood it from this guy, but who the hell knows.  what i do know is that everyone said they will contact me when its time to come in, i do'nt have to remember diddly squat.  thank goodness.
then i asked him who the hell gordon was.  he is a dosimetrist, i think.  i asked a lot of questions, like what does gordon know about tumors and specifically MY tumor.  the doctor was funny, he was like, well gordon is a really smart guy so he knows what is up, but he actually doesn't really need to know anything about tumors.  he just needs to know who to work the programs that make the treatment plans.  the doctor tells him what the objective of the plan is and then gordon goes at it.  they go over the scans and the plans and do all kinds of itterations and stuff. and then get it done.
then, i hope i didn't offend the doctor too much, but i was just like, what do YOU know about MY tumor?  he says he works with tumors from the neck up.  that isn't always the case with doctors like him tho, but because the practice has 15 doctors in it, he is able to focus on an area of interest, like the other doctors, too.  so he knows about my tumors.
so then i asked, since the room is all lead all over the place to keep the radiation in there, if they shoot the beam straight into the top of my head how does it not just keep traveling straight through my body all the way down to my feet.  not sure if he was annoyed with me by now or not, but he explained that its sort of like a bullet being shot into a wall or something, as the beam gets shot into something, it eventually loses velocity.  and that is what gordon is doing in there.  he can't get the beams to hit just the target at 100%.  he can get them to hit maybe 95%, but 5% of that beam is going to hit somewhere else on its way to the target, or on its way on the other side of the target.  in some cases its 80-20, 60-40, etc.  but gordon figures out how to minimize those %s that are outside of the target.
again, i maybe be totally wrong about all of this.  but its sorta how i interpreted what he wsa saying.  \
then the doctor was going on about how advanced technology is these days and how radiation is so much better then it was in the 80s. and how really there was a steep increase of advancements in technology moving up to about 2005 and since then it has sorta leveled off.  of course i asked why, and he said its driven by the private sector and computers. he says there hasn't been a ton of advancement in the computer systems that drive these crazy machines.  then of course, i am like yeah, well, in 2026, we're all going to be sitting here saying oh, silly 2012!!  how naive we were back then and how technology has advanced so much.  he laughed.
then i wanted to know how old he is.  i'm not sure he is older then me.  gonna have to find that out.  just tried a google search and was not successful.
so after all that i ate a pint of ben and jerry's chunky monkey - kill me know, and took a 3hr nap.  good gracious.  there is a reason why my belly is in its own zip code these days.  sheesh!  but again today i am like what the hell am i trying to do.  i am so tired.  i could at least TRY to make healthy choices.  right?  virtually impossible right now.  
on monday D'Ann Arthur stayed with us.  she is a pro ITU racer.  she was racing in canada but had flown in and out of seatac airport.  she was super nice and tolerated us quite well it seemed.  she went out to dinner with me, janet and the swim coach and liz.  she told us some racing stories and she is in med school (fast AND smart!!!) so she told us some stories about that.  in the morning i took her to the pool.  i walked on the treadmill, the thot of a run about made me fall asleep and then i layed on the mat for a while then went and watched her swim.  she is fast.  wow, it was interesting to watch her, she just swam along but of course i timed her and she she was doing her cool down at a 1:20 pace.  what is that??  then she and eric went for a bike ride all around town.  he took her up too many hills for her easy spin kind of day but he said she is fit, she can handle it!  then she packed up and went home.  this weekend she is racing in chicago!  gotta check that out!  then in september she is headed to france for the world duathlon championships!  she won elite nationals earlier this year, so it will be super exciting for her and we can't wait to cheer her on!

Friday, August 17, 2012

MRI

i had a bad night last night.  yesterday was a rest day in all aspects of that word.  no work, no scheduled workouts.  i slept a lot.  sirus and i went on a date.  he knows how to treat a lady.  he wanted to do to what he calls the fancy restaurant.  i had chicken picatta and it was damn delicious.  holy crap it was good.  we had to go to the fancy restaurant because the other option was Red Robin and i was not going to go to RR.
later when it was time for bed, everything was fine and dandy.  i got into bed, tired and ready to sleep.  then i started thinking about the past year and 1/2, long before this whole brain thing became an issue and i just started bawling.  full, open mouthed, squinty eyes, no noise, lots of tears bawling.  it was the weirdest thing.  i couldn't stop.  a few weeks back i had a breakdown and the doctors, but that was just a few tears rolling down my cheek, this was a full on bawl.  i think i needed it, but eric was asleep and all the lights were off in the house and it was 37406 degrees.  so i got out of bed and headed to the couch.  i flipped on the laptop and was happy to find a few emails that got my mind of the crying and allowed me to calm down.  but good gracious my head was hurting and i was feeling sick to my stomach.  eventually i was calm enough that i went back to bed and thankfully fell asleep.  later i woke up to find myself drenched in sweat.  awesome - night sweats.  haven't had any since the 2nd or 3rd week out of the hospital.
needless to say when my alarm went off at 6am to go swimming, i did not get out of bed.
i did however go to work and was very productive so i felt good about that.
i did not swim after work like i had originally planned, instead i went to the hospital for my treatment super early.  the nice old man who brings his wife there everyday had brought some photo albums to show me. he showed me photos of his old Model A car with he and his wife dressed in '20s era clothes.  so cute!  he said they sold it about 8 years ago because the upkeep was too much and his wife wasn't able to get in and out of it any longer.  once the car was gone he really started with some wood working projects.  he said he had started some about 2 years prior, but once the car was out of the picture he really dove into the wood stuff.  he showed me photos of some amazing bird houses including one that looked like his grandfather's house!  he also made some of light houses that he and his wife had visited and a lot with license plates for the roof.  but he also made all kinds of beautiful wooden lamps, bowls, potpurri holders, vases and clocks.  he made an amazing grandfather clock for his wife.  she designed it and he made it.  it was very neat to look through his book and hear the stories behind all of the projects.  his wife came back from her treatment and joined in the conversation tell me about which were her favorites and about some other wood pieces they have at their house.  she went on to describe some of the wooden pull and push toys he has made for the great grandkids, too!
then i got the news on the mri.  good news is that there isn't anything going on with the tumor.  the not bad news is that i have a sinus infection.  so i have to wait that out.  i have another mri next week so they will check on it then, but hopefully it will be better by then.
yesterday i talked to the radiation tech about my hair.  it hasn't started falling out and she says based on her observation everyone's falls out.  it could even start after treatment is over.  she says if it hasn't fallen out by 3 months after i am done then i am probably ok.  but until then, i shouldn't try holding my breath at all.  so based on lavonne's suggestion, i am going to pack a sharpie marker in my gym bag and purse for emergency cover ups! i also saw some cute hats at Whole Foods that i can run in and get on a moment's notice if necessary.
oh but the drama of today's treatment!  they did xrays yesterday, but apparently the doctor didn't like how things were lined up, so they wanted to do more xrays today.  once they took the first set, i had some guy named gordon come in and started poking my head. he said he was the one who wrote my treatment plan (wait, i thought the doctor did that!) but he was trying to get me to move around in the mask.  i can move a little but its not a ton.  but they were looking for millimeters so i guess whatever.  so they took the mask off and there was gordon and my doctor and like 3 techs all in there.  they put a shim under my head then put the mask back on.  wow!   super tight now.  can't open my eyes, i barely could before and i definitly can't talk any more. squish.  i could feel all of my face juices getting on the inside of that mask!  more xrays and then gordon came in to say it looked better.  sweet.
11 more to go!  maybe i will start a pool to guess when the hairs will start coming out.

Thursday, August 16, 2012

today will be 16

more than 1/2 way done!  hooray!  now it seems like it is going fast.  tuesday was doctor day again and when he walked in i had on my hat and he was like, take the hat off, lets look at your hair.  my hair is all there!  i think this is a good sign that it won't be falling out.  i am optimistic although there is still time.
my head has been hurting though.  i had an MRI yesterday and again i fell asleep during it!  but at doctor day he said the best way to figure out a headache was to get an mri so i'll probably find out today if there is anything going on.  he did say to drink the NUUN and to stay hydrated since its so hot these days.  it is hot.
i have no work today and no workout.  i was going to throw in the towel on the training, and i did, sort of.  i am still working with my coach but trying some new strategies. one being doing my workouts in the morning instead of the afternoon.  i swam before work yesterday and that seemed to work pretty well.  i put on the swim cap yesterday but managed only 200 before taking it off because it was hurting my head.  it puts a lot of pressure on my forehead where i have all those titanium plates.  i was worried when i took it off that i would wind up tearing out huge chunks of hair that would then escape throughout the pool but no hairs came out!  later in the shower at the gym i was worried again my hairs would all fall out.  i am not prepared for a back up solution, so i would have had to continue to work with a giant bald spot i guess.  maybe i would have called in and said i was going to be late because i would need to go get a hat or spray paint or something.  but that is about all that is going on with my health.  oh yeah, except this thing on my neck and the weird bump on my calf.  should i be worried about those?  gah!!!  but i did register for two sprint triathlons.  i had deferred entries from last year when i hurt my back so i said what the hell.  i had so much fun at black diamond, and who cares if i soft pedal and walk.  i am excited!!  wouldn't it be exciting though if running out of the water, ripping off my swim cap i also pulled out like 1/2 my hair!!  hope they catch that on film!
oooh!  i want eric to do more house projects!  since seamus won't let me clean her room, i have nothing left to organize!!  our room (paint, lights, fan, curtain rod, curtains) is done.  oh, except the shelf that eric needs to put up.  i just tried to get him to put it up, but he flat out said no.  he is taking the kids black berry picking.  i am going to take a nap.  sirus's floor is all put in!  loving it!!  oh i want eric to just tear all the damn carpet up and put some flooring in.  we aren't going to shell out for hardwoods until the kids have graduated from college anyway, so we should just do it.  these carpets - '80s white - are so cat puke, dirt, crayon, marker, coffee stained!  that doesn't even include the mystery stains that the house came with.
i dreamt last night that i was somewhere near a river and there were elephants swimming up river.  first there were like only a few, but then it turned into hundreds of them, all swimming up river.  not sure what they were doing.  the night before i dreamt that two different people i worked with complained about how the people in the apartments next to where they lived kept them awake by using electric pencil sharpeners all through the night.  what does it mean???
i wore a jean jacket on my first day back at work!

the garden - its been rough this year in the WA for gardens, but we have gotten lots of lettuce, spinach, some peas, green onions and a zucchini!

cheer camp!

old fan that i hated in our bedroom. you can see the new paint and new lights!

new fan.  its not exactly what i wanted but it was only $42 compared to the $400 one i really want. i can wait!  1 fan down, 5 to go.  wow, we have a lot of ugly fans in our house!

Meltaways from Gorants!!  Angie brought them all the way from Ohio!!  Love them!!  Love her!!

golf camp!!!

sirus's new floor!

obligatory cat photo, but you can see paint and new lamp shade in the background!




Sunday, August 12, 2012

what to do what to do

eric ripped up sirus's carpet today.  sirus has allergies, not to cats but to other things and we have been talking about taking the carpet out of his room anyway.  we hesitated because we would really like to put in real hardwoods throughout the house someday.  but we decided it was time for his room, just a quick cheap change out.  the kids and i went to ikea to pick up some flooring.  we got there early and there was no line for the kids area so i checked them in.  while we were standing there, the guy in front of us had an obvious c shaped scar on his scalp - brain surgery!  i was like oh!  and almost said something but thought better of it.  then he turned and he had an identical scar like mine on the other side!!  whoa!!  that guy had been through a lot!  wow!
dropped the kids off and headed in.  found a few things i didn't go there to get, found a shelf for our bedroom, and then found the flooring.  wrote the secret isle and bin numbers and boogied on out of there.  time was running out and i needed to check out and get the kids.
then i came home and slept for three hours.  i was planning on going for run but i couldn't do it.  i was so happy with my bike ride yesterday but it was a struggle to get out there.  and then last night we were up super late to watch the meteor shower and today, i just couldn't get it done.  the meteors were fantastic!!  when we were kids we watched a few but i hadn't ever seen anything like last night!  they were huge and so bright and would streak across 1/2 the sky!  totally amazing.  poor sirus slept through the whole thing but managed to wake up right as we were pulling into the driveway, so he and eric went out on the back porch and watched for a while.  sirus says he saw one but eric is pretty sure he just wanted to go back inside to go to bed.
which brings me to i think i have to stop trying to "train" for a while.  too tired.  and throw work in there and its too much.  feeling a little wussy but what am i going to do?  i'll tell you what i AM doing, i am getting FAT.  holy crap!!  i realized the other day that i am chowing down and i am pretty sure the reason is because i am so freaking tired that i am trying to get myself some energy.  FAT.  and oh i've had a headache since yesterday too!  what is that about!  not debilitating, just constant.  
20 year high school reunion coming up in a few months and not totally sure i am going to go.  totally fat and potentially bald.  waaah!!!! 
omg - i am such a complainer!!!

Saturday, August 11, 2012

its not cancer

on tuesday i met with the radiation doctor.  tuesdays are doctor days.
i had questions for him, most of which i told the nurse and then promptly forgot once the doctor came in.  luckily the nurse was able to prompt me when i would forget.
he showed me the treatment plan.  this is a my interpretation of what the treatment plan looked like.  the purple box is where the highest dosage of radiation is hitting.  oh, i should say that those are my eyeballs on the top and my ears on the sides.  he explained it as being like a topographic map.  each line signifies a drop in radiation dosage.  the closer the lines, the steeper the drop.  there were more lines in the plan, but this is the gist.  the areas that are by the red line, that are closest to the edges are where i will possibly lose my hair.
then i flat out asked him, or told him, that i do not have cancer.  i said, even though i am at swedish cancer institute and they gave me a ton of information about cancer and they keep calling it cancer i was just like, i don't have cancer.  right?  correct.  i do not have cancer.  he said that they normally just call anything in the brain a tumor, well, anything that originates in the brain.  i may be wrong here, but the way i understand it is that benign brain tumors start in the brain and stay there.  they do not spread to other parts of the brain, they don' go anywhere.  my tumor acts malignant because it can come back and it can push it self against other parts of the brain and can cause all kinds of problems.  it is not malignant because it does not spread.  but brain tumors spread by way of spinal fluid so if they spread they only go to other parts of the brain or the spinal column.  if i am correct, and i may very well not be, they call it brain cancer if the cancer originate somewhere else and travels to the brain.    there are certain cancers that are more likely to travel to the brain than others.  i guess.
like i said, all of this could be 100% wrong but its how i understood it when he explained it to me.
the doctor had his fingers taped.  i asked him if he broke his fingers, sure 'nuffs he had, hammered them and smashed them.  lots more questions about that to be asked on this coming tuesday.

oh good gracious, today i was so tired but i headed out on a bike ride.  it was 80 degrees and sunny and amazing.  i was planning on driving to the trail head.  for the life of me, i could not get the front wheel off of my bike.  i flipped the brake thingy, i loosened the skewer.  i loosened it so much that the one piece fell off!  i could not get that wheel off.  i had to go ask eric for help.  i was really worried i was having a serious brain tumor moment.  why couldn't i get the wheel off, i was actually very concerned.  luckily when eric came to help, he couldn't get the wheel off either!  hooray!  it wasn't me.  he just banged the wheel and off it popped! 


Thursday, August 09, 2012

Xterra Black Diamond

on sunday i raced in the World Championships!  Ok, not really, but it was MY World Championships1
If you recall, eric and i were both supposed to race the ITU Cross World Championships in May.  But due to my "condition" we weren't able to go, despite Team USA super suits, air plane tickets, hotel and car reservations.  All those things were canceled except the super suits.  eric and i were stuck with Team USA super suits with our names on the fronts and the arses.  I wanted to wear that super suit!!!
a while back when i started to feel better and started to get outside for some runs and biking, i decided that I would race at Black Diamond.  they offer a 1/2 distance which i decided would be perfect.  i had done this race 4 times previously: 1x DNF, 2x full distance, 1x relay and i was excited to add the 1/2 distance World Championship!
leading up the race i swam a few times, and rode my mountain bike a few times and ran a few times.  any intensity put my on my arse, so i was really trying to take it easy.  i wasn't totally sure i'd be able to finish the race, but since i had no idea what radiation would do to me, i kept all options open.  xtie pre rode with me the day before the race, just in case i decided it was going to be too much and she would jump in and do the race with me as a relay.  but i felt so good after the pre ride that i was pretty excited about the race.
xtie avoiding wet feet
that evening we went to mat's house for a BBQ.  he was racing in the morning as well, but he still cooked for us and showed us his mad slack line skillz.
that night, once the kids were asleep and eric and i were chillin', we heard some music outside.  it was super hot so we had the windows open and that music was way loud.  it was after 9pm, which in our opinion was too late for that kind of racket!  so eric put on the head lamp and stormed out the back door.  he was on a mission to find out whichever neighbor it was and to tell them to shut it.  about 20 minutes later her came back saying it wasn't in our hood and was coming from somewhere over there.  he pulled out all of the local papers trying to find out what event this could possibly be since it turned out to be live music.  we couldn't find anything about it.  so we went to bed.  the music went until midnight, and that combined with being a little nervous, i couldn't sleep!  once the music was done though, i was able to drift off.
i woke up before my alarm and put on my super suit!
i switched out my normal PBJ race day breakfast for 2 eggs and 1/2 banana with almond butter.  i also sipped some heed.  it was going to be a hot one so i really needed to make sure i was hydrated.
we got to the race site and i was so happy to see janet! and charity! and and marci! and mel! and mat! and nigel! and kyle!  and ian! and Amy & Tom!  race day is so fun! so happy to see so many friends!
they sent the full distance swimmers off first, and then the 1/2 distance swimmers about 10 minutes later.  i was able to get in the water for a few minutes and get in a few strokes but not a real warm up.  the water was perfect!
and we were off! i was happy with my swim.  i wasn't sure how i was going to manage, or if i would have the endurance to swim the whole thing, but i did!  i was swimming amazingly straight and i just kept going.  i was so happy to be in the water and feeling so good!
only moments after this, i was doing the robot.
 I realized while setting up transition that i hadn't done a triathlon in over a year - since chelan man 2011.  whoa!  even though i didn't wear socks, my T1 was soooo slow.  i felt like i as in there forever!
i headed out on the bike, not sure how much power or speed i would have.  but i passed a few people right away and was passed by a few right away.  it was a bit of a cluster for the first 1/3 or so of the bike since the 1/2 distance people (me) were coming out of the water with the full distance people.  i am usually towards the back of the pack coming out of the water, but because of the mix of the two groups, i was in a big group.  there were a ton of clusters and people getting off their bikes at every root or tiny hill. it was a mess.  eventually it cleared up and things got better.  i was always riding with someone and that always makes it extra fun.  during the last 3rd of the race i realized my head didn't hurt.  it didn't hurt AT ALL.  i realized that oh my gosh, i have been riding for quite a few years with my head hurting and just assuming that was part of mountain biking.  it wasn't like the last two rides before we found out about the tumor, but there was jarring discomfort that i just assumed was normal.  it wasn't normal!  mountain biking is FUN and can be done without your brain jiggling around!!
coming back in on the bike
 eventually i got to the point during the bike where i was like, omg, thank goodness i don't have to do a 2nd lap because my arms were getting tired.  everything else felt pretty good, but my arms were getting tired.
T2 took way longer then it should have.  i stayed with no socks, but stood there trying to decide if i should wear my visor or my sun glasses or both.  i went with the visor.
the run was terrible.  well, it started out terrible.  it started on mowed lawn.  i was so slow.  i was running but i wasn't moving.  janet and her kids were there to cheer me along and i was like, am i walking?  why is walking so hard?  but i was running.  i kept going until the first hill.  i walked that whole hill.  oh it was tough.  but i ran, well, jogged once i got to the top.  i wound up walking all of the hills, at least most of them.  i eventually met up with a guy and he lead and i followed for a while.  it was nice to run with someone and chit chat.  i was just trying to get the run done, the body wasn't doing anything awesome to go any faster.  eventually he left me behind on a hill.
shuffling
the best part was the 2nd small loop.  it went by so quickly and next thing i was going down the gravel hill and off to the finish!  a few times during the run i looked back to see if anyone was near by, but i really didn't have anything in me to push it any harder.  i didn't even pick it up towards the finish line.  i didn't leave it all out on the course, i just didn't have it to leave out there, but i did go as hard as i could and took the first opportunity to sit down.  i recovered quickly and was up cheering on the rest of the racers coming in.
My favorite photo of the day!
 i was super happy with my race.  for one thing - i was happy that i was even able to do it, and able to finish!  i am so lucky to be well enough to do such fun things like mountain bike and swim and run.  there are plenty of people without brain tumors and radiation who aren't healthy enough to do those things, and there are so many people with brain tumors and going through radiation who aren't able to walk, talk, read or any of those things.  i think about that every day.  this brain tumor thing is a pain in the ass and it gets in the way sometimes but i am so lucky that it just caused a small bump in the road and didn't take away my life.
2nd of all, i am happy that i was able to actually race.  even though i am no where near where i was before,  i pushed myself, and in my mind felt like i was being competitive.  even though i stopped to walk and wasn't able to give any last ditch efforts at the end, i never gave up. in my mind, i raced the whole thing.
3rd of all - i was 2nd overall woman in the 1/2 distance!  how did that happen?  totally unexpected and such a great surprise!
mat won the overall for the full distance, and tom came in 3rd.  it was a good day for both of them!
sirus supports his favorite racer, mat!

Tom, Mat and Bruce on the flat, grass podium!


the kids raced too!  it was their first event of the year, and sadly probably the last.  the kids tris are so stinking expensive.  they had so much fun tho!  sirus has a little bit of a competitive streak in him!
getting their game faces on!


sirus coming in right in front of seamus!

 today marks day 13 of 29 radiation treatments.  it took 3 days to recover from the race. i had to save all my energy to go to work!  i went 3 days this week!  each day i came home and promptly fell asleep right up until my radiation appointment and then slept again after my appointment. i even fell asleep during my MRI on Monday and the MRI machine is LOUD. on tuesday i stayed in bed most of the day!  next week i will work the same hours and then hopefully i will start adding in more days each week.  i'll hopefully gain more endurance so i am not so exhausted after, so i can hopefully begin working longer days, too.  the radiation will start compounding more too, and i am feeling the effects of that.  i am tired, i'm exhausted actually and my stomach hurts, but it will all be better in a few weeks.the doctor says the best way to combat the exhaustion is to stay active.  i will have to find a happy medium there since i promptly need a nap after activity, and i want to have enough energy to go to work, which also causes me to need a nap.  the doctor says the hairs will start falling out next week, too, or maybe the week after or so.  that is going to be interesting! 
mat running it in to a first place overall finish

LUNA Chix hanging all over the fastest guy of the day

me and marci in the morning, before it started to get hot

sirus doing what he does best

LUNA love!

Long time no see, happy to see today!






Wednesday, August 08, 2012

if i were michael phelps

i would totally get my teeth fixed.  dude, he has so much money he could totally do it. easily.  its not like his teeth are that messed up, but he could use the help.  he is not my idea of dreamy, not even close, and the teeth won't change that but at least then i would quit asking myself why he lets his teeth be all messed up like that. 
this look doesn't work for him either.  gross.
but, i have a new boyfriend.  don't worry Dan Hugo, you are still my number one boyfriend, but my new one is pretty delish, i have to say.  have you heard of Ryan Lochte?  hot.
ok, he is a little beefier than i generally like, but he has a cute face and a good smile.  but sometimes i wish he would wear more clothes.  I KNOW, that is is blasphemy. I know he is a swimmer and i know that they swim in teeny tiny swim suits, but really do i need to have him shoving it at me in every non-competition photo?  all of the olympic photos have him in the water or are waist up.  all the photo shoot photos show way too much.  this is not attractive to me, but i guess maybe i'm not the target market for Men's Journal either:
.So, my boyfriend Dan Hugo however, always looks perfect.  now, Dan Hugo is a swimmer, too.  And occasionally there is a photo, or even a video with him in his teeny tiny swim suit, but its all about moderation.  we do not need to see it ALL of the time.













even when he is all banged up and hairy, Dan is the man - super cute, super hottie. and he is very articulate and has lots of good things to say.
BUT, i do think if they make the 50 Shades of Grey movies, they might have to have Ryan Lochte be Christian Grey.  I think that would be a good fit.